Best Puberty Books for Boys with Autism (2026)

Parents and carers looking for the best puberty books for boys with autism want plain, direct explanations a boy can follow at his own pace. This list compares books on reading age, topic and approach.

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The picks

#	Product	Shelf Score	Buy
1	Growing Up Book by Hartman	9.7/10	Buy on Amazon
2	Happening to Tom by Reynolds	9.6/10	Buy on Amazon
3	ADHD Tweens Guide by Star	9.6/10	Buy on Amazon
4	The Only Boys' Guide to Puberty	9.6/10	Buy on Amazon
5	Taking Care of Myself by Wrobel	9.5/10	Buy on Amazon

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Growing Up Book by Hartman

Davida Hartman·9.7/10 Shelf Score

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The Shelf Score runs from 9.2 to 9.8 and weighs fit for the reader or goal (35 points), contents and edition (25), value (25) and listed reading age or level (10, where the listing gives one), using only what the book listing states. How we pick ›

Suits parents and carers who want direct, literal puberty guidance for boys with autism.

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Pros

• Direct literal language with colour illustrations.
• Covers growth, mood swings, friendships and online safety.
• Reading age 9 to 14 years, grade level 3 to 4.

Cons

• Grade level 3 to 4 beside a reading age of 9 to 14 years.
• Description states intimate body topics; preview it first.
• No series information stated.

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Happening to Tom by Reynolds

Kate E. Reynolds·9.6/10 Shelf Score

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The Shelf Score runs from 9.2 to 9.8 and weighs fit for the reader or goal (35 points), contents and edition (25), value (25) and listed reading age or level (10, where the listing gives one), using only what the book listing states. How we pick ›

Suits parents and carers who want a short, fully illustrated puberty story for a boy.

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Pros

• Fully illustrated story following Tom as his body changes.
• Book 1 of 3 in the Sexuality and Safety series.
• Reading age 9 to 12 years, marked as from customers.

Cons

• Only 36 pages, so it covers less ground than longer picks.
• Description states intimate body topics; preview it first.
• First edition dated August 21, 2014.

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ADHD Tweens Guide by Star

Eloven Star·9.6/10 Shelf Score

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The Shelf Score runs from 9.2 to 9.8 and weighs fit for the reader or goal (35 points), contents and edition (25), value (25) and listed reading age or level (10, where the listing gives one), using only what the book listing states. How we pick ›

Suits parents and carers who want puberty guidance for boys with ADHD.

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Pros

• Stories, quizzes, word searches and activities in each chapter.
• Covers body changes, emotions, boundaries and relationships.
• Reading age 9 to 12 years, marked as from customers.

Cons

• Book 3 of 5, so it is not the first book in its series.
• Written for boys with ADHD rather than boys with autism.
• Description states intimate body topics; preview it first.

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The Only Boys' Guide to Puberty

Cool Cub Publishing·9.6/10 Shelf Score

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The Shelf Score runs from 9.2 to 9.8 and weighs fit for the reader or goal (35 points), contents and edition (25), value (25) and listed reading age or level (10, where the listing gives one), using only what the book listing states. How we pick ›

An 81-page boys' guide for ages 8-14 with a journal, audiobook and parent bonus.

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Pros

• Audiobook and journal included
• Parent guide bonus
• Therapist and teacher recommended

Cons

• 81 pages, shorter than others
• Boys only
• Independently published

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Taking Care of Myself by Wrobel

Mary Wrobel·9.5/10 Shelf Score

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The Shelf Score runs from 9.2 to 9.8 and weighs fit for the reader or goal (35 points), contents and edition (25), value (25) and listed reading age or level (10, where the listing gives one), using only what the book listing states. How we pick ›

Suits caregivers who want a full curriculum on hygiene, puberty and personal safety.

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Pros

• Uses simple stories to teach caregivers what to say.
• Print length of 246 pages stated.
• Covers hygiene, puberty and personal safety.

Cons

• No reading age or grade level stated.
• Written for caregivers rather than the boy himself.
• First edition dated January 1, 2003.

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More picks to compare

• Puberty to Relationships by RowlandFor autistic teens, covering puberty, relationships and sex.Check on Amazon
• Puberty Body Change Toolkit by RowlandFor boys aged 9 to 14, on puberty, body change and self-care.Check on Amazon

Compare the picks

Book details as published on each listing, collected 25 October 2026.

How we scored them

The Shelf Score weighs fit, contents and edition, value, and the listed reading age or level where one is given. Some picks list a reading age or grade level, and the rest list neither. How we pick explains the weights.

Scores run from 9.2 to 9.8: each book’s point total is placed on that range, so more points always means a higher score. Reading age or level counts on a list where at least one listing gives one, and a book whose listing gives none then scores zero on it. Where no listing gives one, the score is taken over the other 85 points. Books carry no warranty, so warranty is not scored.

How to choose the best puberty books for boys with autism

Match the reading age to the reader

The listings give reading ages from 9 to 12 years and from 9 to 14 years, so check the listing against the reader. One listing also gives grade level 3 to 4 beside a reading age of 9 to 14 years. See also puberty books for 13 year old boys.

Autism-specific or general

The Growing Up Book for Boys and What’s Happening to Tom? are written for boys on the autism spectrum, while the ADHD Tweens guide is written for boys with ADHD. See also communication books for kids with autism.

Series, standalone or caregiver guide

What’s Happening to Tom? is Book 1 of 3, and the ADHD guide is Book 3 of 5, so check the series number. Taking Care of Myself is written for caregivers.

Before you buy

• Check the reading age and grade level on the listing.
• For a series, buy Book 1 first.
• Read the description for mature themes first.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best puberty book for boys?

For boys on the autism spectrum, The Growing Up Book for Boys leads with direct, literal language and colour illustrations.

Is there a puberty book for boys with ADHD?

Yes. The ADHD Tweens guide is written for boys with ADHD, with stories, quizzes and activities.

Which book should a caregiver buy first?

Taking Care of Myself teaches caregivers what to say about hygiene, puberty and personal safety.

Still deciding? Our top pickGrowing Up Book by Hartman

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Related lists

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