Best Memoir Novels (2026): 5 Graphic Memoirs Compared
Five best memoir novels compared on story, awards and fit: graphic memoirs of family history, identity and life with bipolar disorder.

At a glance
Top picks
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A memoir in panels can land harder than prose: one drawn face carries a whole childhood. These best memoir novels are graphic memoirs, true stories told in comics form, from a family’s flight from Vietnam to one artist’s life with bipolar disorder. Readers who love history, identity and personal struggle will find a pick here; readers who want fiction should look at the site’s novel lists instead.
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Quick picks
Best Overall The Best We Could Do: American Book Award winner on a Vietnamese family. Check price on Amazon
Best History Pick They Called Us Enemy: George Takei’s award-winning internment memoir. Check price on Amazon
Award Winner Gender Queer: A Memoir: ALA Alex Award and Stonewall Honor book. Check price on Amazon
Deluxe Pick Gender Queer Deluxe Edition: 2022 deluxe edition of the award winner. Check price on Amazon
Most Personal Marbles: Ellen Forney on bipolar disorder and creativity. Check price on Amazon
The picks
| # | Product | Shelf Score | Buy |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | The Best We Could Do | 9.7/10 | Buy |
| 2 | They Called Us Enemy | 9.7/10 | Buy |
| 3 | Gender Queer: A Memoir | 9.6/10 | Buy |
| 4 | Gender Queer Deluxe Edition | 9.6/10 | Buy |
| 5 | Marbles | 9.6/10 | Buy |

The Best We Could Do
An award-winning illustrated memoir of a Vietnamese family, for history readers; skip it for light reading.
Pros
- American Book Award winner.
- Intimate family history from war-torn Vietnam.
- 344 pages, the longest pick.
Cons
- Heavy subject matter.
- 2018 publication.
- Illustrated format, not prose.

They Called Us Enemy
George Takei's award-winning internment memoir, for history through a personal lens; skip it for fiction.
Pros
- Award-winning graphic memoir.
- Personal take on a dark chapter of US history.
- Three credited authors and artists.
Cons
- 208 pages, the shortest pick.
- Illustrated format, not prose.
- Historical focus, not contemporary.

Gender Queer: A Memoir
An award-winning memoir on gender identity, for graphic memoir readers; skip it for prose.
Pros
- 2020 ALA Alex Award winner.
- Stonewall Honor book.
- Personal take on gender identity.
Cons
- Illustrated format, not prose.
- 2019 publication.
- Narrower audience than family memoirs.

Gender Queer Deluxe Edition
The deluxe edition of the award winner, for collectors; skip it if the original is owned.
Pros
- Deluxe edition, 2022.
- Same award-winning content.
- Gift-friendly format.
Cons
- Same story as the original edition.
- 256 pages; shorter than the top picks.
- Illustrated format, not prose.

Marbles
A candid memoir on bipolar disorder and creativity, for mental-health readers; skip it for recent publications.
Pros
- Explores creativity and bipolar disorder.
- Weaves in famous artists' stories.
- Personal, candid voice.
Cons
- 2012 publication, the oldest pick.
- Illustrated format, not prose.
- Narrower topic than family memoirs.
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More picks to compare
Stitches: A MemoirDavid Small on a difficult childhood, 336 pages.Check on Amazon
BelongingA German reckoning with history and home.Check on Amazon
Play Like a GirlGraphic novel memoir, 272 pages.Check on Amazon
Ginseng RootsPantheon graphic memoir, 448 pages.Check on Amazon
The Girl Who SangA Holocaust memoir of hope, 272 pages.Check on Amazon
Compare the picks
| Book | Shelf Score | Pages | Published | Amazon |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Best We Could Do | 9.7/10 | 344 | April 17, 2018 | Check price |
| They Called Us Enemy | 9.7/10 | 208 | July 16, 2019 | Check price |
| Gender Queer: A Memoir | 9.6/10 | 240 | May 28, 2019 | Check price |
| Gender Queer Deluxe Edition | 9.6/10 | 256 | July 6, 2022 | Check price |
| Marbles | 9.6/10 | 256 | November 6, 2012 | Check price |
Book details as published on each listing, collected 17 October 2026.
How we scored them
| Book | Shelf Score | Fit /35 | Contents /25 | Value /25 | Age/level /10 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Best We Could Do | 9.7 | 32 | 20 | 20 | n/a |
| They Called Us Enemy | 9.7 | 32 | 20 | 19 | n/a |
| Gender Queer: A Memoir | 9.6 | 30 | 20 | 19 | n/a |
| Gender Queer Deluxe Edition | 9.6 | 29 | 20 | 19 | n/a |
| Marbles | 9.6 | 28 | 19 | 19 | n/a |
Scores run from 9.2 to 9.8: each book’s point total is placed on that range, so more points always means a higher score. Reading age or level counts on a list where at least one listing gives one, and a book whose listing gives none then scores zero on it. Where no listing gives one, the score is taken over the other 85 points. Books carry no warranty, so warranty is not scored.
The Shelf Score weighs fit for the reader, contents and edition, and value. None of the five picks lists a reading age or grade level, so scoring rests on awards, page count and how the listing describes the story. How we pick explains the weights.
How to choose the best memoir novels
Pick the story that pulls you
The Best We Could Do follows a Vietnamese family through war and migration, while They Called Us Enemy follows George Takei’s childhood in American internment camps. Both are history through a personal lens. For more life stories, see the memoir recommendations list.
Graphic or prose
All five picks are illustrated memoirs, not prose; the art carries as much story as the words. Readers who want traditional prose memoirs should look elsewhere. The memoir podcasts list covers the genre in audio form.
Check awards and edition
The Best We Could Do won the American Book Award; Gender Queer won the 2020 ALA Alex Award and a Stonewall Honor. The Gender Queer deluxe edition from 2022 suits collectors, while the original suits first-time readers.
Match the tone to the reader
Marbles is candid and personal about mental health, while The Best We Could Do and They Called Us Enemy carry the weight of war and displacement. Gender Queer is intimate and reflective. None of these are light reads, so match the tone to what the reader wants to sit with.
Before you buy
- Confirm the format: all five picks are illustrated graphic memoirs.
- Check the print length: 208 to 344 pages across the picks.
- None of the five picks lists a reading age or grade level; read the description for themes.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are these prose memoirs?
No, all five picks are graphic memoirs told in comics form.
Which memoir won awards?
The Best We Could Do won the American Book Award; Gender Queer won the 2020 ALA Alex Award and a Stonewall Honor.
Which is the longest?
The Best We Could Do states 344 pages; They Called Us Enemy states 208.
Related lists
See every history and biography list and all nonfiction lists.